The Biggest Mistake in the Job Interview – Guest Blogger: Bonnie Lowe
Today’s article is by Bonnie Lowe, creator of the Job Interview Success System. It’s a kissing cousin of last week’s “Ditching the Elevator Speech” article – but this time the focus is on the interview. Read on and, as always, let me know what you think by leaving a comment below!
I’ve often said that you have to sell yourself during a job interview. The hiring manager is the customer, and you are the “product.” That’s a fairly simple concept. But it’s incomplete.
Imagine that Joe is a salesperson at the local Toyota dealer. The Toyota Tundra has just been named Truck of the Year. The truck has been advertised constantly on TV and in the newspaper. It’s the dealership’s best-selling vehicle. There’s a special promotion going on that ends today, and if Joe sells one more vehicle before closing time, he’ll meet his sales goal and receive a nice bonus. But the dealership closes in 20 minutes, so he has little hope of doing that. Then Joe sees a guy drive in, park his 10-year-old pickup truck, get out and walk over to look at a new Tundra. “Looks like I’m going to get that bonus after all!” Joe thinks as he rushes over to greet him.
Joe: “Hi. Welcome to City Toyota. I’m Joe.”
Customer: “Hello.”
Joe: “That’s a beautiful truck, isn’t it?”
Customer: “Yep, sure is.”
Joe: “Did you know it was just named Truck of the Year?”
Customer: “Yep.”
Then Joe proceeds to tell the customer all about the Tundra’s outstanding qualities, it’s features and benefits, and it’s amazing value. He talks about it for several minutes, being sure to leave no detail out, and finally concludes with, “This is absolutely the best truck you can buy. Don’t you agree?”
Customer: “Yep. It’s the best truck I’ve ever seen.”
Joe: “Great!”
Joe notices the lights are being turned off and the manager is at the door ready to lock up, so he says, “It’s closing time, but I can ask the manager to stay so we can get you in that truck tonight. Shall we go write it up?”
To Joe’s dismay, the customer says “Nope,” turns away and starts walking back toward his truck.
Joe follows him and says, “Wait! There’s still time. You can drive a new Tundra home tonight!”
The customer keeps walking and gets in his truck.
Joe: “I’ll knock two thousand dollars off the price right now. No one else has gotten a deal like that on a new Tundra. What do you say?”
The customer starts the engine and just before driving away, says to Joe, “I came in to buy a Prius.”
Here’s the key that most job candidates miss: you need to know what the customer wants before you can sell it to him.
The problem is that job candidates THINK they know what the customer wants. After all, they’re responding to an advertisement (job announcement) that spells it all out, right?
Yes… and no.
Imagine a manager tells his HR department to hire him a new administrative assistant. Everyone-the HR person who creates the job announcement, the job applicants who respond, and even the manager himself as he conducts the interviews-thinks the manager wants someone who can screen his calls, prepare his correspondence, schedule his appointments, record minutes of his meetings, make his travel arrangements, file his paperwork, etc., all in a competent, friendly, and professional manner.
Each question during the job interview is designed to determine how closely the candidates match those qualifications and expectations. The candidates respond to those questions by talking about their skills and experience as they try to sell themselves.
The more prepared candidates talk in terms of “benefits” in addition to “features.” For example: “I have 10 years of experience recording meeting minutes.” (Feature) “I’m familiar with what’s required, won’t need to be trained, and can have accurate minutes posted within 30 minutes of the meeting’s end.” (Benefits). They’ll also talk about accomplishments, not just responsibilities. For example: “In my last job I was responsible for handling the administrative needs of six people.” (Responsibility) “I created a prioritization system to ensure all six individual’s needs were met in a timely manner, and I never missed a deadline.” (Accomplishments)
Only one candidate, Mary, does something different. She wraps up her answer to the interviewer’s opening question (“Tell me about yourself”) with a question of her own:
“How can I help you by solving your problems and making your job easier?”
This question takes the manager by surprise. He responds half-jokingly by replying, “Make our customers stop complaining, and give me three more hours in every day so I have time to do everything I need to get done!”
Mary then asks more questions, such as “What do most customers complain about?” and “What do you feel are your biggest time wasters?” She listens carefully to the answers, asks follow-up questions to draw out more details… and achieves two very important goals:
(1) She shows the hiring manager that she’s genuinely interested.
(2) She gets the manager to reveal the real “product” he needs and wants, and is thus able to position herself as that perfect product.
The manager didn’t want an “administrative assistant.” He wanted a problem-solver who could make his life easier. Knowing this, Mary answered every question during the interview in a way that showed she understood, would be able to solve his problems, and could make his life easier. In other words, she was exactly what this customer wanted to “buy.”
Remember Joe? If his first question when greeting the customer had been, “How can I help you today?” he would’ve earned that bonus. His mistake was focusing on what HE wanted instead of what the customer wanted.
That’s the biggest and most common mistake job candidates make.
By being genuinely interested in solving the hiring manager’s problems, you will more effectively sell yourself as the product he really wants-and get the job!
For more information on Bonnie Lowe and her winning interview strategies, check out her Job Interview Success System.








Couldn’t agree more with the article. You have to become a marketer; you have to know the wants and needs of the customer before you can build or sell a product to them. Getting Mary’s question in early may be difficult unless you do research on the company first. Somewhere in the process I would ask “if I were to start tomorrow, what are the three most pressing issues I need to solve.”
In sales nobody cares about your widget and what it can do except you. Find what the manager wants to solve. Talk to those points and how your skillset is relevant to solving them.
Ed Warner
Bonnie, sound advice which I will definitely be using going forward. I got a chuckle out of the customer’s response, “I came in to buy a Prius.”
You hit it right on the “HEAD”!! This is, by far, the most common mistake most Sales People and others make…….. They are so interested in telling you about themselves and what they can do for you that they forget that they need to CLEARLY UNDERSTAND what the TRUE needs are first!!!
If the customer came in to buy a Prius near closing time, why was he lingering around the truck? Maybe his deep seated needs and wants were somewhere in between a Prius and a truck– something else the sales person should be probing for. Note that part of the root cause of the problem is management’s bonus plan, force fiitting a pre-conceived solution and diverting Joe’s attention away from solving the customer’s problem or at least intriguing the customer enough to want a second “interview”.
Great article! I need to keep reading this article before I go on my next interview and remember to apply these points in my next conversation. Hopefully, it will help me land my next job! Thanks for sharing.
Good article! I often wait till the end when they ask ‘do you have any questions for us?’
Then I ask what would be their Ideal candidate for this position. This has allowed me to reiterate many of the points that were discussed earlier. Then I ask for the job.
Great article! We all need to absorb as much knowledge and advice now a days when it comes to interviewing! Thank you for sharing!
If you remember that YOU are interviewing THEM it makes the interview a lot easier. You should go into the meeting with lots of questions about the company and the team you will be working with. I have found my years of audit experience makes interviews easier.
Excellent and interesting article. It sure provides worthy information for all job-seekers. I think finding a cunning way to know what your future employer wants exactly done is a trump card in hand. But the question now is, can the approach be applied to all jobs?
Impressive article.
Bonnie,
Very astute article and very accurate. Many people are unaware of the science of the interview, the prep, the psychology and the sell. Great analogies in the article to help the uninitiated. I used to prepare my staff for interview using a combination of my own experiences and the star technique.
All the best.
Jamie Deighton
Great article.. To overcome this problem knowing what the client is seeking. Suggest that during those phone interviews that most of us are required to go through today, this an idea time to ask this question; What is the important function that you are looking for this position to perform? I.E. what is your greatest concern or problem that you want me to take off your back?
Great article, I found this extremely helpful. I will put this information to good use.
I’m drolling on this article, mouth watering, top class quality. Awesome, i’m out of words, lovely!