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	<title>Comments on: The LinkedIn Job Seeker Connections Dilemma: Quantity or Quality?</title>
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		<title>By: Bruce R Roberts</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bruce R Roberts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Aug 2011 23:21:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have enjoyed reading all the comments posted thus far.  I do not think there is a right answer whether to go for quantity or quality.  I have experienced both in the past 7 months as I have grown my network from 7 unto over 800.  
Firstly, I am sorry for those who have been out of work for a long period of time.  Sometimes I have the impression at times from articles and bloggers that networking is the No 1 way of getting a career after being unemployed.  I disagree as seeking a career should not putting all our eggs in one basket so to speak.  Career seeking is a full time activity including networking and many other means of seeking employment.  
Secondly, those who have sought help from people they have connected to but have not responded for any requests for help, if the request is only by email, why not try calling them or writing them using snail mail?  Sometimes people are so inundated with technology that the technology becomes overwhelming.  A few times I have asked people to introduce me to others in order to connect and I have never had success.  So I only connect through various types of groups including open networking groups.  
Thirdly, I don&#039;t believe in adding my email address to a list for anyone to connect just for the sake of having a lot of connections. That to me is what Facebook is all about, and has nothing to do with quality of networking.  I hold strongly that a person needs to have a plan even in networking.  The geographical areas, the career positions, the skills and the amount of activity.  These are all part of the factors when accepting an invitation or requesting an invitation.
I hope of some of what I have said is helpful in some way.   Thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have enjoyed reading all the comments posted thus far.  I do not think there is a right answer whether to go for quantity or quality.  I have experienced both in the past 7 months as I have grown my network from 7 unto over 800.<br />
Firstly, I am sorry for those who have been out of work for a long period of time.  Sometimes I have the impression at times from articles and bloggers that <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/networkingforajob" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/networkingforajob';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">networking</a> is the No 1 way of getting a career after being unemployed.  I disagree as seeking a career should not putting all our eggs in one basket so to speak.  Career seeking is a full time activity including networking and many other means of seeking employment.<br />
Secondly, those who have sought help from people they have connected to but have not responded for any requests for help, if the request is only by <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/Amazing Cover Letters" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/Amazing Cover Letters';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">email</a>, why not try calling them or writing them using snail <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/vpl-training" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/vpl-training';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">mail</a>?  Sometimes people are so inundated with technology that the technology becomes overwhelming.  A few times I have asked people to introduce me to others in order to connect and I have never had <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/InterviewSuccessSystem" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/InterviewSuccessSystem';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">success</a>.  So I only connect through various types of groups including open networking groups.<br />
Thirdly, I don't believe in adding my <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/vpl-training" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/vpl-training';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">email</a> address to a list for anyone to connect just for the sake of having a lot of connections. That to me is what Facebook is all about, and has nothing to do with quality of networking.  I hold strongly that a person needs to have a plan even in <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/networkingforajob" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/networkingforajob';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">networking</a>.  The geographical areas, the career positions, the skills and the amount of activity.  These are all part of the factors when accepting an invitation or requesting an invitation.<br />
I hope of some of what I have said is helpful in some way.   Thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: Linda Palladino</title>
		<link>http://www.careerattraction.com/quantity-or-quality/comment-page-1/#comment-15241</link>
		<dc:creator>Linda Palladino</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Apr 2011 21:42:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kevin,
When I first started with LinkedIn I was extremely careful with the persons I was connecting with. I made certain I knew them or at least their work. Now I am connecting with everyone especially professionals trying to build up their own network. It is one way I can give a helping hand. I do make certain that there is a professional &quot;likemindedness&quot; and I am careful with spam. I have only received two request out of my 750 first degree connections that were questionable, one I reported as spam when a person was trying to sell some products. But it has been a blast communicating and exchanging ideas with people in my field of interest and meet new people who are innovators and who are helping me to think out of the box. It has been a great experience sharing my own recommendations and  hearing back from my connection that my suggestion was a great help to them. I have recently received two job leads from people out of state that I would have never have heard from if I did not open up my connections. However, 7 months later I am still unemployed and I have stopped counting on my LinkedIn connections for leads because they are far and few between, but rather use it as a tool to keep active in my field of interest and to find those few people (out of the many) who are eager to give as well as receive. A mixed bag for sure.  Linda</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kevin,<br />
When I first started with <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/LinkedInTraining" style="" target="_blank"  onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/LinkedInTraining';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">LinkedIn</a> I was extremely careful with the persons I was connecting with. I made certain I knew them or at least their work. Now I am connecting with everyone especially professionals trying to build up their own network. It is one way I can give a helping hand. I do make certain that there is a professional "likemindedness" and I am careful with spam. I have only received two request out of my 750 first degree connections that were questionable, one I reported as spam when a person was trying to sell some products. But it has been a blast communicating and exchanging ideas with people in my field of interest and meet new people who are innovators and who are helping me to think out of the box. It has been a great experience sharing my own recommendations and  hearing back from my connection that my suggestion was a great help to them. I have recently received two job <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/jobleads" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/jobleads';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">leads</a> from people out of state that I would have never have heard from if I did not open up my connections. However, 7 months later I am still unemployed and I have stopped counting on my <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/LinkedInTraining" style="" target="_blank"  onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/LinkedInTraining';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">LinkedIn</a> connections for <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/jobleads" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/jobleads';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">leads</a> because they are far and few between, but rather use it as a tool to keep active in my field of interest and to find those few people (out of the many) who are eager to give as well as receive. A mixed bag for sure.  Linda</p>
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		<title>By: Joseph Mullin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joseph Mullin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Mar 2011 16:07:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My question is are you building a network or a database??? 
Networks are about quality of connections 
Database is about quantity period not relationships.
It has been scientifically proven that humans can only handle about 120 relations at a time.

I feel telling job seekers to go for a database is a disservice to them. It is the same as telling them to send there resume to any and all jobs out there. It is a shotgun approach and it is not really effective. Not if you are looking for a quality job.

I know these are hard times and seekers are getting, if not beyond, desperate in their search. So as professional career advisors we need to be cautious in what we tell seekers. I know Kevin is like me and we want nothing more than  to see everyone back to work. As a professional I try to find ways to make their connections more of quality and that will get them hired in the right job.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My question is are you building a network or a database???<br />
Networks are about quality of connections<br />
Database is about quantity period not relationships.<br />
It has been scientifically proven that humans can only handle about 120 relations at a time.</p>
<p>I feel telling job seekers to go for a database is a disservice to them. It is the same as telling them to send there <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/resume-training" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/resume-training';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">resume</a> to any and all <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/hiddenjobmarket" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/hiddenjobmarket';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">jobs</a> out there. It is a shotgun approach and it is not really effective. Not if you are looking for a quality job.</p>
<p>I know these are hard times and seekers are getting, if not beyond, desperate in their search. So as professional career advisors we need to be cautious in what we tell seekers. I know Kevin is like me and we want nothing more than  to see everyone back to work. As a professional I try to find ways to make their connections more of quality and that will get them hired in the right job.</p>
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		<title>By: Melanie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Mar 2011 22:20:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I particularly liked the focus on what you can offer to the client. What is your solution. Many are still unemployed, but what is setting you apart from the others and why should an employer hire you! As a recruiting manager, I work with both clients and candidates and wish this message would be spread more as that new approach could change someone&#039;s career immediately!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I particularly liked the focus on what you can offer to the client. What is your solution. Many are still unemployed, but what is setting you apart from the others and why should an employer hire you! As a recruiting manager, I work with both clients and candidates and wish this message would be spread more as that new approach could change someone's career immediately!</p>
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		<title>By: Unemployed in Pasadena</title>
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		<dc:creator>Unemployed in Pasadena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 22:10:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I also lean toward Elizabeth&#039;s and Theresa Moretti&#039;s comments.  Having 10,000 Linkedin connections to me feels unwieldy.  I imagine myself on stage before a group of 10,000 strangers saying, &quot;I&#039;m am an unemployed bookkeeper. what need can I fill for any of you(for money of course)?&quot;   Yes Randy that would be breaking out of my confort zone.  I think Ron has a point, my message to most of the 10,000 would probably be ignored as superficial, uninteresting, irrelevant and self-interested.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I also lean toward Elizabeth's and Theresa Moretti's comments.  Having 10,000 <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/LinkedInTraining" style="" target="_blank"  onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/LinkedInTraining';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">Linkedin</a> connections to me feels unwieldy.  I imagine myself on stage before a group of 10,000 strangers saying, "I'm am an unemployed bookkeeper. what need can I fill for any of you(for money of course)?"   Yes Randy that would be breaking out of my confort zone.  I think Ron has a point, my message to most of the 10,000 would probably be ignored as superficial, uninteresting, irrelevant and self-interested.</p>
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		<title>By: Question of the Week: How do I grow and cultivate a real network? &#124; Career Attraction</title>
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		<dc:creator>Question of the Week: How do I grow and cultivate a real network? &#124; Career Attraction</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 19:49:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] your loose network with likeminded people who understand “give to get.” I’ve talked about getting quality out of quantity in the past, but it’s worth repeating. You can never assume who may be able to help you or be [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] your loose network with likeminded people who understand “give to get.” I’ve talked about getting quality out of quantity in the past, but it’s worth repeating. You can never assume who may be able to help you or be [...]</p>
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		<title>By: jeffrey</title>
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		<dc:creator>jeffrey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 02:03:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi
when it comes to quality over quantity as I said in my last post, the key is in the enviroment that you live in.
The quality will always out weigh quantity. Yet this is done via critical mass, filtering out those who are not like minded as to to those whom are one by one, this is not a quick process it can take time to develop.
Once done the network will become real as trust is noticed in what you do rather than just what you say. This will then allow you whom you can actually turn to for the leads, rather than expect it to be all that you approach. This is also the same offline as the key here is behind every possible lead there lies the person not the digital text on line. We can not forget we want to be  respected, thus how we are respected by others is how we will respect them.It is our essence of our existence that defines our purpose and being here. This is the sense we must take when we question is LinkedIn a proper sense or tool for marketting ourselves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi<br />
when it comes to quality over quantity as I said in my last post, the key is in the enviroment that you live in.<br />
The quality will always out weigh quantity. Yet this is done via critical mass, filtering out those who are not like minded as to to those whom are one by one, this is not a quick process it can take time to develop.<br />
Once done the network will become real as trust is noticed in what you do rather than just what you say. This will then allow you whom you can actually turn to for the <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/jobleads" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/jobleads';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">leads</a>, rather than expect it to be all that you approach. This is also the same offline as the key here is behind every possible <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/jobleads" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/jobleads';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">lead</a> there lies the person not the digital text on line. We can not forget we want to be  respected, thus how we are respected by others is how we will respect them.It is our essence of our existence that defines our purpose and being here. This is the sense we must take when we question is <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/LinkedInTraining" style="" target="_blank"  onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/LinkedInTraining';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">LinkedIn</a> a proper sense or tool for marketting ourselves.</p>
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		<title>By: jeffrey</title>
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		<dc:creator>jeffrey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 19:09:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Is Linked In being used properly?
From all that I have ready here from all the posts here,I will have to say that for the most part  the majority are from the Western Society of Life and Norms within them.
So let me take a a differnt apporoach to this issue:
How many of you really know your neighbour?
How many of you really know the guy next to you in your condo  parking lot?
How many of you live in an apartment in where you are really feeling belonged?
If the answer is NO then  it is because not that networking is the issue it is our sociey is very closed in comparitive to other societies in the world. For Example I have lived in Israel and I have being to South america as my better half is latin as well being to Europe inthese societies the concept of networking is more a way of life as these societies tend to be more open and approachable thus the network is within the culture as it is part of the enviroment that you grow up in that determines our behavior and approach.
In Israel I felt that once i moved into my apartment that all the neighbors were very friendly and welcoming that it felt that they were my family this is utmost not heard of in the North Culture, The ssame was for when I was in South America and Europe I felt more connected to the people as the senxe of caring was stronger. So is lionked in not being used properly ? I think it more an Enviorment issue as opposed to Networking.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is Linked In being used properly?<br />
From all that I have ready here from all the posts here,I will have to say that for the most part  the majority are from the Western Society of Life and Norms within them.<br />
So let me take a a differnt apporoach to this issue:<br />
How many of you really know your neighbour?<br />
How many of you really know the guy next to you in your condo  parking lot?<br />
How many of you live in an apartment in where you are really feeling belonged?<br />
If the answer is NO then  it is because not that <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/networkingforajob" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/networkingforajob';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">networking</a> is the issue it is our sociey is very closed in comparitive to other societies in the world. For Example I have lived in Israel and I have being to South america as my better half is latin as well being to Europe inthese societies the concept of <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/networkingforajob" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/networkingforajob';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">networking</a> is more a way of life as these societies tend to be more open and approachable thus the network is within the culture as it is part of the enviroment that you grow up in that determines our behavior and approach.<br />
In Israel I felt that once i moved into my apartment that all the neighbors were very friendly and welcoming that it felt that they were my family this is utmost not heard of in the North Culture, The ssame was for when I was in South America and Europe I felt more connected to the people as the senxe of caring was stronger. So is lionked in not being used properly ? I think it more an Enviorment issue as opposed to <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/networkingforajob" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/networkingforajob';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">Networking</a>.</p>
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		<title>By: Connecting with the Hiring Manager – No Recruiters, HR or Gate Keepers &#124; Career Attraction</title>
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		<dc:creator>Connecting with the Hiring Manager – No Recruiters, HR or Gate Keepers &#124; Career Attraction</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 May 2010 00:22:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] The more first degree connections you have, the larger your phonebook. I’ve written before about my philosophy that out of quantity, quality is born. The tool I highly recommend to all my clients for building a vast 1st level of likeminded [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] The more first degree connections you have, the larger your phonebook. I’ve written before about my philosophy that out of quantity, quality is born. The tool I highly recommend to all my clients for building a vast 1st level of likeminded [...]</p>
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		<title>By: unemployed in Buffalo</title>
		<link>http://www.careerattraction.com/quantity-or-quality/comment-page-1/#comment-5797</link>
		<dc:creator>unemployed in Buffalo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 21:29:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am an unemployed person trying to use the linked in network.  I found that even when you  use the site and request help from the mentors you have had and asked them for a reference they ignore it.  I opened a linkedin account to help me make new connections through the people I knew because I was told that is how people are get better jobs these day. So, I built my profile did my reference request.  I did my reference for them they requested from me but I did not get one in return. Bottom line is if the people that suggest you get onto Linkedin do not follow through and help you as they said they would it does not work the way it is supposed to. Currently I have been out of work for 5 months now sent linkedin Emails and regular email to my network friends or  thought  they were friends because I never got any replies back.  So even if you worked with these people and they said Oh sure I will Help Don&#039;t count on it.  The best thing I found to remember when you are dealing with a network like this is EVERYONE is for them selves and looks out for no one in this economic world except themselves. So we need to look out for a ourselves alone for those that get help they  need great but it does not always happen. I know I will get another job somewhere down the road but I am not going to count on the People I network with to help me because Sometimes in reality it does not happen. People have busy lives and friends sometime slip through the loop and get forgotten.   Please do not think I hate anyone I have networked with because they seem to have forgotten me because, I don&#039;t, I just think it is a shame that people persevering that this will be a big help to network  to get a job when sometimes in reality it does not help as it was meant to do.  So sorry, to sound so negative but, that is my reality people I thought I could count on to help in my time of need like I did for them they got there jobs but I am still looking everyday on every website and paper or article I find . There is a job out there for me but I am going to have to find it my self.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am an unemployed person trying to use the linked in network.  I found that even when you  use the site and request help from the mentors you have had and asked them for a reference they ignore it.  I opened a linkedin account to help me make new connections through the people I knew because I was told that is how people are get better <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/hiddenjobmarket" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/hiddenjobmarket';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">jobs</a> these day. So, I built my <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/LinkedInTraining" style="" target="_blank"  onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/LinkedInTraining';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">profile</a> did my reference request.  I did my reference for them they requested from me but I did not get one in return. Bottom line is if the people that suggest you get onto <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/LinkedInTraining" style="" target="_blank"  onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/LinkedInTraining';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">Linkedin</a> do not follow through and help you as they said they would it does not work the way it is supposed to. Currently I have been out of work for 5 months now sent <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/LinkedInTraining" style="" target="_blank"  onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/LinkedInTraining';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">linkedin</a> <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/Amazing Cover Letters" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/Amazing Cover Letters';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">Emails</a> and regular <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/Amazing Cover Letters" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/Amazing Cover Letters';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">email</a> to my network friends or  thought  they were friends because I never got any replies back.  So even if you worked with these people and they said Oh sure I will Help Don't count on it.  The best thing I found to remember when you are dealing with a network like this is EVERYONE is for them selves and looks out for no one in this economic world except themselves. So we need to look out for a ourselves alone for those that get help they  need great but it does not always happen. I know I will get another job somewhere down the road but I am not going to count on the People I network with to help me because Sometimes in reality it does not happen. People have busy lives and friends sometime slip through the loop and get forgotten.   Please do not think I hate anyone I have networked with because they seem to have forgotten me because, I don't, I just think it is a shame that people persevering that this will be a big help to network  to get a job when sometimes in reality it does not help as it was meant to do.  So sorry, to sound so negative but, that is my reality people I thought I could count on to help in my time of need like I did for them they got there <a href="http://www.careerattraction.com/hiddenjobmarket" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://www.careerattraction.com/hiddenjobmarket';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">jobs</a> but I am still looking everyday on every website and paper or article I find . There is a job out there for me but I am going to have to find it my self.</p>
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